This mod adjusts Rousing during non-love-scene encounters (there are numerous)
Each arousing Toy has a Rousing Strength
Adjust Rousing Increase/Decrease using the Toys MCM options
Wearing a chastity toy will cause a reduced decrease
Whipping, dancing, and other scenes increase Rousing. Dancing is a good way to increase your Rousing if needed, as an alternative to the Fondle hotkey
the Toys denial hotkey if successful will prevent a Rousing decrease