Can Toys&Love be used with VR? / busy or in combat notification

No. VR is not supported.

Known Problems:

1. A Notification "busy or in combat" when trying to start scenes. This is because VR or a mod you are using related to VR is causing player controls to be seen as locked.

2. Animations scenes will work badly or not at all

There are no plans to make Toys&Love work for VR.